East Nashville

We live in Nashville’s most eclectic neighborhood. There are fancy lawns and hippie lawns. There are dive bars and fancy restaurants. There are shi shi salons and three Hair Worlds within a 2 miles of each other. It’s “transitional”. But, the good far outweighs the bad for us. We like living in the 3720….6.

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This weekend turned into a make-shift neighborhood appreciation weekend for me. It wasn’t planned… it just turned out that way. It all started on Friday night. Erin and I met up for a drink at Lockeland Table, one of the newer “fancy” restaurants in the neighborhood. It’s small and cute and always crowded, but we got there late enough to snatch a seat at the bar and enjoy a drink. It was great to catch up.

On Saturday, Ryan suggested we ride our bikes around our neighborhood. WONDERFUL idea. We ended up on side streets we’d never seen. We saw some beautiful old homes and peeked into a newly built (uninhabited) modern house. The adventurer in me loved that so much. We also stopped by a new sandwich place and got ourselves a delicious beet/carrot/apple/ginger juice. I loved it and so did Ryan. (No he didn’t).

We spent the next few hours on our neighbor’s back deck watching basketball on their outdoor TV (that just means they dragged their indoor TV outside – this isn’t HGTV). It’s lovely to have Chris & Shelby as our neighbors and a second home right next door.

Sunday, Rebekah and I went to Barista Parlor to celebrate their 1-year anniversary. There were delicious refreshments, food from Porter Road, cake and a wonderful old-timey country band. It was lovely.

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I decided to walk home from the birthday party. After traveling Chicago by foot and metro, I realized I mindlessly drive everywhere in Nashville for no good reason. I made a conscious choice to walk more, and given Sunday’s beautiful weather, it was a no brainer. The walk home was so pleasant. I gathered a lot landscaping inspiration and passed a guy playing sitar in the park on my way home. What? Yes.

And that’s where the weekend ends. Each and every one of this weekend’s musings reminded me how much I love East Nasty and all its character. We ended up in this neighborhood (and in our house) by sheer luck, and I felt thankful for that this weekend. I <3 our hood!

Chicago

Ryan and I flew to Chicago to see James Blake in concert and hang around for the weekend. This trip suited us well. I love travel. Ryan loves music. It’s fun to combine loves.

The weekend kicked off with James Blake, Ryan’s man crush. He has a bigger crush on him than I do (is that weird?). Show was GREAT.

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The after show at Smart Bar was next. That’s right, AFTER show. That means grandma needed to stay up late. I mentally prepared myself for the late night and was determined to stay up, because you know, YOLO.  James Blake is on the left and another DJ, FaltyDL, is on the right in the photo below. Ryan is behind the camera with a mini boner.

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The after show involved a lot of dancing. Not pictured: drunk blond girls in mini skirts stumbling across the dance floor.

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The next day was rainy and windy. We layered up and headed to breakfast at Nookies in Old Town. Reading the morning paper over our crepes, Ryan learned that Geoff Farina, one of his guitar heroes, was playing a solo set that night at The Whistler in Logan Square. Could it be THE Geoff Farina? The guy from Karate? After some googling, it was confirmed, and our evening plans were set.

After breakfast, we trekked over to Lincoln Park. Walked around in the rain. Popped into a few stores, including LUSH, a favorite of mine. We couldn’t bypass Glazed & Infused, a local donut shop, after a strong recommendation by the LUSH staff.

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Next, time for a Cubs game. I had been to Wrigley Field once before with Lindsay, Mark and Zo, but it was Ryan’s first time. It’s a must-do for a baseball fan.

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After the game, we hopped on the metro and headed over to Logan Square for Geoff Farina. Obligatory metro shot-by-girl-who-lives-in-city-without-extensive-public-transit:

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We had some time to kill before Geoff Farina and wandered into Two Way Lounge for a pre-show drink. Our bartender – I’ll just call her Wanda – needed help with our order. Ryan explained that a whiskey ginger is just whiskey and ginger ale with a lime. Hopefully she wrote that down for future reference.

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Six o’clock rolled around and after witnessing an odd altercation at the bar, we walked over to The Whistler. It was literally across the street from Wanda’s bar. The two places couldn’t contrast more. Two Way = Dive. Whistler = hip cocktail lounge. We can hang in both places, but I’d say the cocktail lounge wins over the dive bar for me.

Anywho, Geoff Farina was there, just hanging at the bar, waiting to go on. We tried not to stare, or look too overjoyed. Ryan worked up the nerve to talk to him for a bit, which was cool. Geoff started his set with a song that was familiar to me, and after contemplating it for nearly an hour, I realized it was The Tennessee Walz. I know it from Kelly Clarkson’s Grammy performance, which is one of my fave performances of the year. I love her.

After his set, Geoff came by to talk to us some more which was a nice surprise. He and Ryan geeked out over (what else) music for the next hour or so. He was really nice, and it was a big highlight for Ryan. I’m glad I got to be part of it.

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After the show, our hungry tummies guided us to Wasabi in Logan Square. A sushi bar where you can BYOB!! YES! Ryan went off to get us a bottle of wine while I ordered some delicious rolls and a bowl of fancy ramen. Later, Ryan confessed to buying two bottles of wine, one which didn’t make it past the steps of the liquor store. Total Ryan move. We spotted the broken bottle in its black bag the next day. Here’s Ryan walking away from the scene of the incident:

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Saturday, our final full day, was the day of delicious eats. We started with brunch at Longman & Eagle, a happenin’ Michelin rated restaurant just around the corner from our place. Delicious.

After brunch, we hit up Logan Hardware, a record store recommended by Geoff Farina during our chats at The Whistler. I picked up a Waylon Jennings record and Jimmy Reed record. Ryan got a handful more. Records in hand, we headed over to Wicker Park and ended up at Antique Taco for lunch. The tacos and margaritas were really good, but the highlight for me was the horchata milkshake. Major danger if these were available locally.

After some shopping on Michigan avenue, we headed back to Logan Square for dinner. We chose Lula Cafe after multiple recommendations from locals. It was worth the hype. I had the spaghetti, which sounds super boring, but it turned out to be the best meal of the trip for me. It even dethroned Noni’s spaghetti as my favorite spaghetti ever! So yummy. Sadly, no photo was snapped of said spaghetti. Just imagine it.

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Sunday was our last day. We had just enough time to grab Ryan a coffee and me a tea at Intelligentsia before heading to the airport. It was hard to leave on such a beautiful day!

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Looking back on the trip, I’d say it was most definitely a success. The concert, the after party, the cubs game were all great – but it’s the unexpected surprises along the way, the moments we didn’t plan for, the Geoffs, the horchatas, the spaghettis, that made the trip most memorable. I’m so very thankful it happened that way.

Coffee, Lunch.

The office Keurig broke the other day. I don’t care all that much because I drink tea in the mornings, but for the caffeinated, a plan B is necessary. So, Rebekah and I walked over to Coffee, Lunch. While in line, I learned about the owner’s neck tattoo, who also happened to be the barista that day (and I think most days). It’s a an espresso cup. He got it when they opened the shop back in September to remind him that there is no plan B. Coffee, Lunch is his plan A, and plan B, and C. And D. This is it for him, and he is committed to success.

I do not like neck tattoos, but I respect this one. Best to you, Coffee, Lunch!

Sneaky iPhone pic:

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Gay Marriage

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I am pro gay marriage. My position on gay marriage is based on my own life experience and my belief that we should treat everyone equally under the law. I have gay and lesbian friends who are wonderful, loving people and I can’t imagine telling them that no, they can’t be covered by their partner’s insurance, and no, they cannot enjoy the same tax benefits as married couples. I do believe being gay isn’t a choice. I’ve never met anyone who said, “well I just wanted to be gay so I decided to be gay.” Why would someone make this unpopular choice that divides families, attracts glares and limits civil rights? I admit that I haven’t done any extensive biblical research on the topic and I know as a Christian I should, though I’m not sure it would change my mind.

The gay marriage discussion is certainly heating up given the impending Supreme Court debates on the topic. I read this article from the Christian point of view today and although I don’t fully agree with the author’s position, I do agree with the author’s suggestion that Christians should “live in the tension of confidently proclaiming the Bible’s teaching while respectfully and lovingly pursuing relationships with those who identify as gay for the Glory of God.”. As a general life rule, proclaiming our beliefs respectfully and lovingly is something we should all strive for. I realize this could be quite the challenge when the topic hits close to home. I imagine I’d have a hard time staying calm if someone told me that my son/daughter/sister was disgusting, or lesser than, or not allowed to do x,y,z  for being gay. Loving well is a challenge we all have to accept, christian or not.

I also love that the premier Christian business of our day, Chick-fil-a, follows this approach, something that Starbucks CEO Howard Schultz and his provoker Thomas Strobhar haven’t quite mastered, at least according to the author. The article recounts a great conversation between Dan Cathy (Chick-fil-a CEO) and  Shale Windemeyer, a gay activist. It’s worth a read. Lindsay, you’ll enjoy it. Here it is again.

4/3 Update

The gay marriage articles keep coming. Here is another good one from RELEVANT.

 

LAX // SFO

Work called me to the west coast last week. Here are some highlights:

Venice Beach – I landed about 4 hours before my coworkers. Perfect. I used my free time to stroll the always entertaining Venice boardwalk and dip my toes in the Pacific Ocean.

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Lunch at Sugarfish – Best sushi I’ve ever had. Sorry MF sushi. This place served their sashimi on warm rice, and I LOVED it. The tuna dish below was also phenomenal.

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Alicia – Alicia is Ryan’s friend from back in the day. I first met her in London. Then saw her once more in PCB. Now LA. I like this international friendship we have going. Dinner that night was at Picca Peru.

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Hotel lady – The lady in the photo below shamed me in the best way possible. I quickly noticed her wig, her Michael Jackson-like voice, her veneers and what I assumed was some plastic surgery as she walked by me in the hotel lounge. I judged her. Later in the night, through conversation, I realized how genuinely sweet she was. She told me about her battle with esophageal cancer. She talked about how coming to relax at the hotel helped take her mind off her illness. She talked about her love for USC. About her friend that just died. She told me about what she could and couldn’t eat.  The could list was VERY short. I watched her struggle to drink a shake and felt so much empathy for her. I’m glad I got to know her, and I’m glad I was reminded that sometimes the most kind person in the room is the one you least expected.

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San Francisco – I’ve always liked San Francisco, but this visit took my adoration for the city to the next level. I was reminded of how much I love the combination of water and mountains. Katie B and Peque, my most adventurous friends, showed me the best time. We started with a taco competition in the Mission district where we judged tacos based on a few criteria: first impression, taste, mouthfeel and value. The first taco won. The next day, we went over the bridge to the headlands. We drove the coastline and stopped to tour a lighthouse. We ate a delicious seafood lunch on a pier in Sausalito. Then off to tour TCHO, a small batch chocolate factory in the city. The best part was of course the tasting. After TCHO we drove through Golden Gate park which was amazing. I can’t believe the lush park was once sand dunes, and I can’t believe they have BUFFALO in the park. We ended the night drinking Pisco Sours at Katie & Peque’s house and just chatting about life. What a great time. I wish we lived closer because I need a little more Katie B in my life.

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Pour Some Sugar On Me

Or not. Or just pour it on me but don’t let it get in my mouth. Either one.

For about a week or two now, I’ve made a conscious effort to say no to sugar. No to sugar in my tea. No to cupcakes around the office. No to my two luvahs, Cadbury Cream Eggs and Swiss Rolls (I miss you guys!). I’m now snacking on nuts, hummus, fruit and these fake chocolate chip cookies. Like I can’t tell the difference between chocolate and molasses. Please.

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But I do admit to feeling better. I’m not perpetually stuffed to the gills. My problem areas are slightly less problematic. And, I’ve actually noticed that I’m sleeping better, though I’m not sure if that’s attributable to the lack of sugar.

Still, I miss you, sugar. I wish you weren’t so bad but so good at the same time.

 

 

Virginity is Not the Point

Enjoyed this article in RELEVANT magazine this morning.

Excerpt:

Most of us prefer spiritual parameters that add up more neatly than grace does. We like standards that can be striven for and adequately met. This is why we’re prone to hold to our labels tightly, especially the labels that are so nicely cut and dried. For instance: Are you a virgin? Circle “yes” or “no.”

But in the Gospel, it does not matter which labels our obedience has earned or which ones our disobedience has lost. No amount of abstinence can save me, and no amount of extramarital sex can put me beyond God’s capable reach. It is our very idea of purity, in fact, that derives itself not from our own moral abilities, but the Person of Christ—who alone is purity personified.

Happy Humphrey Day

My college roommate Lindsay was (and is) a serious dog lover. In college, she would call home to talk to her family dogs in her special dog voice. She’d cuddle with those fur balls and get their hair all over herself and NOT CARE! She’d even let Scarlett (the one with the rotten egg breath) lick her. I thought she was crazy for all this excessive dog loving, and she thought I was crazy for not loving dogs like she did.

Turns out, Lindsay was right again (DANG IT!). After our home was robbed in 2009, Ryan and I decided to get a dog. We knew we wanted him to be big. We knew we wanted him to fluffy. And the moment we laid eyes on him, we knew we wanted Humphrey. Here he is shortly after we picked him up in Kentucky:

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He threw up on my lap a few minutes after this photo was taken. But I loved him already so it was ok.

Time passed and little Humph grew quickly. The pictures below were taken only 4 months apart.

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And today, our practice child is 3 years old. Happy Birthday Humph! You bring us so much joy. We love you.

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